Tuesday, Jun 28 2011
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Green check yesterday! Overall a good day for me. Only downer is that hubby and started a discusssion...sigh. Same fight every 3 months. I just need him to help around the house more. I ask that he help clean the kitchen. I am not asking him to change religions, rob a bank, change his personality. I just want him to clean his gignatic mess after he cooks.
Sunday he read for about 5 hours (must be nice to have that kind of time). I feel like I am fighting time wiht the TV or the book.
His job stinks and I undstand that. I know that he needs to esape and I understand that but there needs to be some kind of balance. He tucks himself away in the bed room reading and I end up doing everything for our daughters and grandma (who is 97 and lives with us).
After his hackles went down he did admit he is depressed, the job thing is getting him down.
I love him I really do but it is so hard to be encouraging sometimes. I just want to say get off your A**. He is probably pushing 340 pounds and he is only 5'9". He barely moves when he gets home and his breathe is heavy. I encourage walks and stuff but I know how hard it is but sometimes you just have to stop making excuses and make life better for yourself. WE live in Missouri and it is humid now. If he goes outside just for 10 minutes he has to sit under a fan for 10 minutes to cool off.
He finally got his blood work done. He does not think it is that bad. His Triglycerides are in the 600's. I just worry about his health.
Sorry....I guess I just needed to talk about it. I just hope he can find some motivation. I just don't know what to do anymore.