Leslie, I'm sending you digital <hugs>. You hang in there, it will get better. All that stuff went away *poof* when I dropped major pounds. I still notice the difference (that's why I started this thread)... it's like I'm not used to my own (this new version) body yet.
YES, your feet do slim down! That reminds me of a funny. I have a foot injury, so I wear nothing but expensive sneakers (seriously, all the time. no girlie shoes for me). For years I've gone to the local New Balance store, said, give me another one of these (pointing to my feet) and try not to choke at the price. They last me six months or so, and I have several pair I rotate, so it's probably a year between shopping trips.
So, last time I went in, I said, "these again please" the clerk asked me what size. I had no idea (it'd been a year...) and so they take 'em off to measure. Turns out I had been wearing a double-whatever wide, but the clerk was all puzzled. Those weren't even close to fitting me anymore. She figured I'd been badly mis-fit. No, just turns out my feet had gotten skinner, too. Whoo-hoo. I hadn't noticed it, because you know how you get used to your favorite pair of sloppy shoes. I'm down to a normal width now.
So look forward to those new shoes!
HW390 CW244 GW180