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Sunday, Aug 26 2007 - Stop breathing so loud!!!
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So I'm still worked up about the mistakes my husband has made latly. This morning he was banging and rushing around the house getting ready for work at 7:00am. He didn't have to be there till 8:15. So he is doing all this huffing and puffing, woke my 7 1/2 month old son up with all the noise. I got up and asked him if he woke up late and he said no. So why was he rushing around? He got out of bed this morning at 5:15 and left late to work WHY? What on gods earth was he doing for 2 hours? Now the whole house has to be woken up by him because he pissed away the morning watching c-span. Mind you the reason he got in all this crap was for speeding...now he has to speed to get to work...AGAIN.
I'm so upset with his actions that I truly have no feelings for him right now. I'm not talking devorce but things need to change SOON! 3 kids, too many bills and a wife who dosent eat enough. NOT A GOOD COMBO! His is never home and when he is he is making Messes (no real biggy) or acting like a child.
You know its bad when there laying in bed next to you and you keep thinking...I wish he could just stop breathing so I could get some sleep. LOL...Funny...but not at the same time!
Anyone out there have any marital advice? I just can't baby him, its not in me. He needs to take control of his life, I already have 3 other lives that I am responsible for....I can't him anymore. sigh
I'm so upset with his actions that I truly have no feelings for him right now. I'm not talking devorce but things need to change SOON! 3 kids, too many bills and a wife who dosent eat enough. NOT A GOOD COMBO! His is never home and when he is he is making Messes (no real biggy) or acting like a child.
You know its bad when there laying in bed next to you and you keep thinking...I wish he could just stop breathing so I could get some sleep. LOL...Funny...but not at the same time!
Anyone out there have any marital advice? I just can't baby him, its not in me. He needs to take control of his life, I already have 3 other lives that I am responsible for....I can't him anymore. sigh
3 comments so far.
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a decade ago
I agree....don't pick up after him if you can tolerate it. Otherwise he'll just expect you to always do it.
:bang: Sometimes they seem like big children! Now, this may sound strange but during our allergy season my husband and I sleep in seperate bedrooms. That way we both can sleep without disturbing the other. There are also nights when one of us doesn't sleep well and instead of tossing and turning until we have woken the other...we'll get out of bed and go watch TV in another room until we can sleep. It keeps us from being crabby with the other because they kept us from sleeping the night before or the past week, etc. 
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by JUSTCALLMECOLEY
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a decade ago
It's HARD but don't fix his messes 'cause he will know you WILL do it for him. Tell him firmly but nicely how you feel and that you will not take care of his responsibilities, that's his job. If you need to, suggest counseling together and if he says no, go without him. Maybe he'll see how serious you are at that point and you'll be able to vent constructively as well by talking to someone who can help. It sounds like something is distracting him and he's avoiding going into work - maybe it's exceptionally stressful lately. Talk to him to find out what is going on.
by ANGELA86
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a decade ago
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