I'm back after a two week furlow! I ended up with a minor shoulder injury. I was on vicodin for about a week and 1/2 and unfortunately, knocked me out for several days. I had several doctors appointments, etc. So needless to say, I was occupied with other things and slept alot for about two weeks. I'm back on track now (again) lol, but I feel good. Ron and I are going to counseling which is good. Things between us has calmed down because I told him that if this didn't stop I was leaving him permanently. Not to mention, his parents called and I told them my side and they backed me up and told him to get his s*&$ together and make this marriage work because I was worth keeping and what I wanted was not unreasonable.

I gained the four pounds I lost back over the past two weeks but I'm not upset. I was dealing with a lot of pain and needed the break. I know I can lose it again plus some. It seems like this is getting easier to master and maintain. Besides, it's only four pounds and I thought I had gained a lot more. So I was happy. I'm having a good day, I'm even smiling ! I want to thank those who sent me messages. It really helps to know that I'm not alone and people do care, even complete strangers. So again, thank you!