What does losing weight mean to me?
Losing weight means finding my old self again, if I'm still in there. Losing weight means becoming more active and setting a good example for my daughter.

What are the rewards? The primary reward is to try to overcome the fear of getting pregnant again and putting all the weight back on. We want more children, but if I can accomplish it this once, I should be able to do it again if we decide to have more kids.

What will gaining or not losing weight mean to me? It will likely mean depression and loss of self. It will likely bring on dissatisfaction in my marriage.

What are the consequences if I don’t lose weight? Decreased attractiveness to my husband and those around me.

Do you have an idea of a specific goal weight? If yes, what is it? I would love to weigh between 110 and 120.