Yesterday's meeting with my FIL's social worker was very informative, actually a little bit of an information overload but at least we have a starting point. we all believe my husband is in denial; I have to ask myself if he sees something we are capable of, are the rest of us judgement impaired at the moment? Today we are going to my FIL's house to clean out the two spare room upstairs he was using as storage to make space for a live in caregiver. There is so much to go through, most of the items will be relocated to the attic but there is plenty that is trash too. We will empty donate all his clothes packed away upstairs since they haven't been used in over 10 years and will donate his prosthetic leg and brace that were never used (still in the wrapping) to the veterans association or the local habitat for humanity.

I'm not even sure he's going to be able to come home but are moving forward as if he is because my husband seems to think he definitely will be but even the doctors aren't sure. Today will be a very emotional day. Well, I guess I've put it off long enough, time to go face this head on and just dive in.

Wish us luck