I was reading a book that Connie recommended called "Big, Big Love." They mentioned a Dr? Sociologist? Some kind of expert? that talked about a "white tank top test." The thing is, you're supposed to put on a white tank top for 10 minutes each day and stand in front of a mirror and get used to how you look. The idea being that you will slowly come to accept yourself and that if you can do that in a white tank top, you can do it in ANYTHING. Wonder if it works. :laugh5: I wish you didn't feel that way because I think you're beautiful, but I also think that everyone feels that way. OK, except the Gym Commando, but that's a whole 'nother topic. LOL

by SCALEHO

I totally get what you mean... However, I think everyone is uniquely shaped & sized... There aren't many people who are in love with their bodies. I am trying hard to accept mine. It's not easy, especially after 7 weeks of pretty intense marathon training & not seeing a smidge of difference in my body. But, I am getting stronger, and there has to be someone out there that is envious of my horse legs! :) Love you, babe!

by DAWN

You are beautiful. I'll take your weird shape any old day of the week! Yep, sure would. Matter-o-fact, give it to me right now!

by JAXS

Since I've actually seen you in person I can say you are a smokin' hot Momma with a great shape! :kiss:

by PATTIXOXO

But it's a sexy "weird" shape! :kiss:

by JAY

I seriously do think it's progress.

It's proof that you are changing the way you think. And - assuming you were previously unhappy with your thinking - change is good.

by TMOORE1

Change that word "weird" to "unique!" We all have our OWN shape and no matter what, you ARE fabulous!

by RUNKERIRUN

I agree with Connie. =D (But I know what you mean.)

by EPMOMMA

Maybe someday you'll look in the mirror and think, "Darling, you look fabulous!" Because it's true!

by CLOE